dean & cas working together
"I need you here."
#there was something strangely intense and incredibly heartbreaking about cas pulling out that chair #he’s eating a burrito and wearing a hoodie and he’s saying yes of course let’s talk #let’s talk about everything #because we’re equals now#we’re the same now #we can #sit with me and tell me all about being human#and let me tell you what i’ve learned #let’s just stay here talking until we’re too tired and we have to sleep #and you can show me where the sheep are so that we can count them together #and tomorrow i’ll make you coffee because they showed me how and one of the shelters i stayed at #and then maybe we can talk some more #and maybe we can just keep doing that #if it’s okay with you #for the rest of my life #because i’m going to die one day #but i’d like to fill all the days between now and then with you #destiel
Musey I’m 1000000% done with you and your stupid tags.
Supernatural: Ripping out your heart violently over and over, yet still making you come back for more.
Well, people, I have this friend of mine that was in the private M&G with Jensen Ackles in VanCon this last weekend. She told me some stuff about it and authorized me to tell you something that made her smile.
Since I know things in fandom are difficult these days, I suppose it can make you smile you too, so I decided to actually do it and post it.
Just in case if someone asks:
Has my friend a tumblr account? Yes.
Do I trust her? Completely.
Will I post her username in my blog? No.
Will I tell someone her username privately? No.
Anyway, the thing is she was in this M&G and she was with a very infamous hater of this fandom. I don’t want to name her, because the sole mention of her nickname would bring viruses to my computer haha, but we practically all know her. She likes to say how much Jensen enjoys her inputs of brodependency and how much Jensen agrees with her statements of useless!cas or dean-hates-cas.
Probably she is doing it right now.
And if she does, she is lying.
Let’s say, to summarize, that Jensen Ackles put this person in her place TWICE during his M&G, according to my friend, who was basically and exactly besides them.
First, she started with the whole brodependency speech, and how Sam is the only person for Dean, etc, etc, etc. Jensen Ackles answered her that is really important for Dean to have Castiel and, how much Dean loves having Castiel (literal) and how he wished they’d done more stuff together.
Second, she played the “I’ve heard Castiel thinks Dean is a monster and he wants to kill him cos he doesn’t like him. Is this true?” card and Jensen Ackles answered her with a NO. My friend points out it was a very emphatic “No” as if he was done with that statement.
And that’s it.
I know it’s not much, but it’s a little, and I’m sure this will make you feel better. As usual, I would suggest you not to believe what a hater say, because as is proved in this case, probably it’s not true.
And well… remember Jensen could have been complacent with this person, and he decided against it in a private M&G.
I think it’s cool to share.
the undertone of all this is ppl being ashamed of slash ships when they shouldn’t be, particularly when so many of us are queer, and are invested in them because they are interpretations and dynamics we can relate to.
and if jensen doesn’t understand that, if he lets his casual homophobia or discomfort come to the fore, you know what i don’t really care, if he finds it so unbearable to even glance at a 140+ character tweet about a ship like…seriously….he does not need to be protected from ‘TEH GAY’ that’s fucking offensive to me as queer person, there are plenty of actors out there that talk about m/m and f/f ships that directly involve their characters diplomatically and with grace/tact. it’s not that hard to do.
and as i said before, i’ve never seen such an uproar over the legitimate hate, death threats, sexism, misogyny, that a lot of cast members and associated parties receive…
like really jensen’s so-called aversion to slash trumps all that? that’s what’s seen as most important?? that’s what we’re prioritizing?
this is all so transparent.
allow me to summarize: ‘i hate this ship wah wah and its shippers are allegedly tweeting about it to an actor who’s repeatedly made homophobic statements tears fall slowly down my face i will use this as a reason to justify my hatred for said ship and its shippers because i don’t know how to focus on the ship i love and move the fuck on with my life I MUST PROTECT THE FEELINGS OF MAN ON THE OFF CHANCE HE HAPPENS TO SEE SOMETHING ON THE SMALL REMOTE POSSIBILITY THAT HE WILL BE OFFENDED BY QUEERNESS RE; A SHIP I VEHEMENTLY DISLIKE EVEN THOUGH I’M LIKELY QUEER AND SHIP A QUEER PAIRING MYSELF I MUST PLACE HIS POTENTIAL UNEASE ABOVE EVERYTHING’
#and please don’t come into my askbox saying jensen has never said anything homophobic#or that his lesbian aunt trumps everything#homophobia is not confined to hatred of queer people#it’s the little jabs the false assocations (gay = unmanly)#(frosted tips = fruitcake)#that promote an ‘othering’ of us as outside of the norm#he has done this repeatedly and needs someone to sit his ass down and teach him why it’s not appropriate
Dean Winchester - Season 9
Castiel in Every Supernatural Episode ( S4-S9 )
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Anonymous asked: Do you think season 9 toned down the romance between dean/cas
Okay so there have been some beautiful answers to this question put out there already so I’m not going to be eloquent here, I’m just gonna give you an off-the-cuff list of things that happened in season 9, make of this what you will.
Short answer: no.
people who benefit from your subjugation literally do not care about how nice and calm you are when you’re telling them things they don’t want to hear
"be nicer, be calmer" is a way of telling you they aren’t listening. it’s easier to ignore you when you’re quiet.
Anonymous asked: What are your thoughts on the upcoming musical episode?
My thoughts are…it’s probably going to make me look stupid. (Without censoring them, that’s exactly what I thought.)
Every time there’s a super meta episode, despite the amount of structure saying we’re heading toward Destiel as text, I get worried that we’re going to end up in a 4x18 situation. And then the writer (Robbie, bless his sweet little subtly-and-respectfully-Megstiel-destroying heart) makes me look like a complete fool for my (realistic) cynical worry.
I have the same freakout every single meta episode, and they get exponentially less worth that by the season. Meta Fiction was one of the most Destiel episodes I’ve ever seen in my life, from the dialogue to the framing of the villain (an arrogant writer who thinks he knows everything and sinisterly separates the two of them with help of an offscreen arrogant director, while noting that characters “surprise you”) to that goddamn end theme I’ll never forget, and yet, before it played, I was losing it with preemptively devastated worry from the moment I knew the title.
So basically, my thoughts are “stop worrying, Andrea” and yet “damn it I hate how I even have to, hetero couples with this much buildup never have to worry about this shit, why is being queer so fucking hard”. And yeah, okay, also “if Becky’s there as has been rumored, can someone just poke my eyes out for me so I don’t have to see yet another rapist absolved on this show because she’s female”.
Besides that, whether you’re asking about singing J2M, nakedness relating to Cas, or “Wincest Fest ‘14”, I really don’t have any yet. I’ve spent so much more time worrying about what they’ll make of Dean as a demon (in true Castiel fashion) because I love him and it’s devastating that he’ll be gone, be unreachable, be Evil, that I haven’t paid much emotion to those particular spoilers (partially because the last one is LOL absolutely irrelevant, and I don’t think the naked will be super affective).
Back when I was younger and more ignorant and misinformed than I am now, one of my exes literally made me feel guilty sometimes when he got a boner and I didn’t want to “take care of him”. He claimed that it caused him a lot of pain and he said that his doctor had actually said he couldn’t leave himself in that state or else he could damage himself…. So made me feel like I HAD to give him relief even when I really did not desire to. And that sucked.
Wait… it DOESN’T hurt them?
Boys get boners all the time for no reason. No, it doesn’t hurt them. If any boy tries to tell you otherwise, run away as fast as you can because he’s lying to you for the sake of his penis.
No penis is more important than you because you are a whole person and a penis is just a spongy flab o’ flesh.
Hahaha deff not I get boners constantly.
Anything causes them
Favorite answer so far.
Dicks can seriously be ridiculous at times
Hell sometimes a brisk breeze can set them off
Reblogging this for all of the girls and guys that DO NOT KNOW THIS INFORMATION. Because this is extremely important.
The term ‘blue balls’ isn’t actually a fucking thing.
It was created by giant flopping douche canoes to con girls into rubbing their little dingadongs.
I literally get 10 boners a day and never get blue balls.
Next time someone tries to shame you into a handy, kick them in the balls and tell them “NOW YOU HAVE BLUE BALLS”
set rapists on fire, set rape apologists on fire, set anyone who says ‘we should think about how the rapists’ life is going to be affected’ on fire, set victim blamers on fire
when u find out u and ur friend have the same notps
butterflydm replied to your post “I’ve been watching S6 of Buffy all day, and let me just fucking tell…”
yes. I’ve seen a lot of people say that Spike’s attempted rape of Buffy was OOC and…no. it wasn’t. it was of a piece with everything else he was doing to her that season. Like in many abusive relationships, he reacted violently to her leaving it.
Exactly. Could not have said it better myself.
This is where my huge problem with ~Spike’s “redemption” stems from. The idea that his rape was a momentary loss of control, like his ~demonic side~ took over (and lol what that fucking says about how people perceive rape and “there’s a beast in every man” etc.), and then his guilt lasted much longer than the feelings behind the rape and cleansed him/the relationship somehow: like the rape is a fluke in his love, in his treatment of her, and it hurt him more than it did Buffy, and thus he’s just super sweet (more like a completely different person) to her in S7.
That comes from a total ignorance of how wrongly he treats her the entire season (and prior to that as well), and it also absolves Spike, specifically, of not treating her like William did because he wasn’t that guy instead of because “she was mistreating him”. It sets in stone the Skyler White effect, where despite how untrustworthy he’s framed and how unhealthy their relationship is as well—how right she is to be wary of it/him when he’s soulless (inc. how she treats him in 7x01 before she realizes he’s William again), people watching the show think S7 is a result of her treatment or some sort of character growth (cos he just loves her so much that raping her broke him of his abusive ways /rolls eyes) of his instead of a result of two different characters treating her in two different ways.
The scariest part of Spuffy is just what was in that post from GoT: just like with Meg and Cas, the nicer and closer to the person the rapist is (/the more docile and/or dependent the victim is), the more people literally refuse to attribute the coercion and control and lack of respect for ‘no’ to any kind of actual wrongdoing. Acquaintance rape via abusing one’s amiable connection with someone literally doesn’t exist for some people.
(That’s part of my so-called ‘obsession’ with writing Meg’s abuse and assault in more technicolor terms, taken to its typical conclusion: with talking about it in general in both shows. The subtle harm of characters that expert in manipulation and insidious abuse is frequently missed until it culminates in the eventual more “severe” act, usually out of that controlling frustration you mentioned above, and though it did with Spike, Meg never had the freedom for that [partially because of her sexist defanging]. And hell, even then, you get what we’re talking about here, people still missing the more subtle abuse and coercion and acting like the rape is OOC. It’s so important that this shit be brought to light.)